Sunday, August 28, 2011

17 months old

Caleb weighs about 28 lbs! I’m so happy he’s a good eater!
He’s slowly starting to say words!! Every time he says something I’m amazed! It’s the best feeling! Some of his words include: on, good, no, nana (banana), Liley (Riley), good job

Caleb dropped one of his toys, and the giraffe’s head popped off. He picked it up, tried to put the head back on, and kissed the giraffe’s face! So stinkin cute!! He also kisses his OSU football player nightlight.



When we feed the dogs, I point my finger and say, “eat your food!” If Caleb sees dog food still in their bowls, he points his finger and “tells” them to eat their food!
He gives us hugs when we ask for"tight squeezes" and now gives kisses with his lips closed :o)

To call the dogs in, he stands by the window and hits his leg. He also pats the couch to call them up by him.
His favorite foods are blueberries, cheerios in milk, cucumbers, tomatoes, teddy grahams, peaches, cheese, and of course, Daddy’s German pancakes.
He’s starting to be a little stinker with brushing his teeth, and we have no idea why! It’s like he won’t stand or sit still to let us do it!
He LOVES Mickey Mouse Clubhouse and Team UmiZoomi even more than before. I only let him watch two shows a day, and he is totally enthralled. It kind of creeps me out how he zones out, but I use those times to run around the kitchen and get stuff done. He sits on the couch with his Disney characters and other stuffed animals so they can all watch!



Thursday, August 25, 2011

fun play dates

Caleb and I have had some fun play dates recently! We had Liam (9 months old) and his Mom Natalie come over to hangout at our house! The boys got along really well! I loved how Caleb wanted to be as close to Liam as possible, which meant trying to sit on his lap! Then he would get right in his face and start babbling...and Liam would babble back!



sharing puffs



check out those blue eyes!


standing side by side


On another day we meet Kaitlin (exactly one year older than Caleb :) and her Mom Trisha at the Dupage Children's Museum in Naperville. This place is awesome, and lucky for us only 15 minutes away from the house! There were so many cool things for the kids to play with!




Caleb loved the water...as usual!



wind tunnel



he stuck his face up against this plastic wall!
I'm realzing that these play dates are just as important for us Moms, as well as for the kids to socialize! It feels so great to have another Mom say the exact same things I think and feel!

Hip Update

So I had my appointment with the hip doctor today. He was really nice, and very detailed in telling me everything that's wrong with my hip. I have a tear in my labrum (cartilage). Labral tears are typically the result of some underlying etiology, whether it be bony or traumatic. In my case, it's the bony etiology. I have a cam and pincer lesion, which are bony abnormalities on my femur and pelvis bones that make up the hip joint. I also have femoral retroversion.


Here's my orthopaedic lesson for the day:

Femoroacetabular impingement (FAI) is a condition in which the femoral head, acetabulum, or both are shaped somewhat abnormally. The ball and socket do not fit perfectly, causing friction during hip movements, resulting in damage within the hip joint. The damage can occur to the articular cartilage (smooth white surface of the ball or socket) or the labral cartilage (soft tissue bumper that surrounds the socket).

Impingement can occur as a result of femoral sided impingement (Cam impingement), acetabular rim impingement (pincer impingement), or a combination of both which is the case in the majority of patients.

CAM Impingement: During motions such as hyperflexion and internal rotation of the hip, the Cam lesion is able to fully engage within the joint. This results in cartilage loss over the femoral head and corresponding dome (acetabulum), as well as labral tears. CAM lesions predominately affect the cartilage within the hip joint, resulting in a characteristic peeling of the cartilage off the bone. Cartilage wear is the definition of arthritis, therefore, this type of impingement is considered a pre arthritic condition.

Pincer: The second category of femoroacetabular impingement is the "pincer" type lesion, referring to the "over coverage" of the acetabulum in respect to the ball (femoral head). The "extra" bone of the acetabulum repetitively hits upon the femoral neck resulting in the pinching of the labrum in between.


Combined (what I have): CAM lesions often coexist with pincer lesions. CAM lesions lead to articular cartilage injury first, whereas pincer lesions crush and tear the labrum first.

Femoral Retroversion: refers to how posterior (facing back) the femoral neck is.

Due to the anatomy of a retroverted femur, when the hip is internal rotated, the femoral neck hits the acetabular rim earlier than it would with a normal femoral neck. This results in crushing of the labrum, and many times more posterior (back) pathology in the joint.


I know I'm a geek, but this is how I tore my labrum without actually having an injury!


While I look like a good surgical candidate, he wants me to try 6 weeks of physical therapy, since I really haven't had any conservative treatment. Obviously PT won't fix the tear or lesions, but will build up my hip strength and possibly decrease the pain I'm having. That being said, only 10% of people have a decrease of pain. When he told me he wants me to do the PT first, I totally made a face! He said, "You don't look very happy."

I said, "Well I just feel like it's a waste of time to do PT if it won't actually fix the problem." However he said he wants me to try it. I can also schedule surgery while I do the PT because right now he's scheduling surgeries in October.

So I'm going to call his office on Tuesday (not sooner, so I don't seem like a psycho) to try to pick out a surgery date, and then will do PT during my lunch breaks at the PT place where I work.

The good news is that I should only have to wear a hip brace and be on crutches for about 2 weeks! However I'm on my feet a lot at work, so I don't know if I'll be able to jump right back into things.

Two things that I'm thinking about:

1) With the surgery, the MD said he'll tighten my hip capsule. This means I'll lose some of my flexibility. This isn't really a big deal since I don't dance anymore, but my flexibility has been "a part of me" my whole life! It's kind of depressing to have that change!

2) It scares me whether the same thing could eventually happen to my other hip!

Sunday, August 21, 2011

so adorable!

Caleb is so adorable! I was rocking him before bed and Erik came in to give him another kiss. Caleb sat up and kissed him, then started pointing at Erik. I thought he was trying to grab Erik's ear, but when Erik leaned closer to him, Caleb grabbed Erik's head and pushed it towards mine so Erik would kiss me! He is the cutest kid! Then I laid him in his bed and he went to bed on his own, no crying tonight! He's doing so good!

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Best Feeling in the World...

...snuggling my little man while he fights taking his nap! I won :o)

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

3 nights in a row!

Caleb has fallen asleep on his own three nights in a row! We are so proud of him! I'll admit I'm a little sad not to snuggle him to sleep! He's been giving us hugs and kisses, but he hardly ever stays in my lap for very long! Hopefully we can snuggle while reading some books tomorrow :)

Monday, August 15, 2011

Bittersweet

Erik and I have been talking about switching Caleb to a twin bed in the distant future, and hopefully we still have several months before we need to do that. He's not crawling out of his crib yet! However we know that we need to have him start falling asleep on his own if we want any hope for him to stay in a big boy bed. Up till now we usually snuggle him till he falls asleep.

For the past week when we snuggle I can tell he's uncomfortable in my arms. It's been hot upstairs and he's a little sweat box! I ask him if he wants to go in his bed and he nods yes. Last week he'd lay down for a minute, but then flip right over, stand up, and reach out for me.

Yesterday he laid down for about 5 minutes, stood up and cried a little, but then laid back down and snuggled Teddy, his bear. He got up again, and couldn't settle himself. We let him cry for a few minutes, but I gave in and snuggled him.

Tonight we tried again. I asked if he was ready to go to bed and he nodded yes. He laid down, then flipped over and stood up. I gave him a hug and said I loved him and that I'd see him in the morning. He snuggled his Teddy, and I went into our room to watch him on the monitor! He did it! He fell asleep on his own without any tears! I was so excited, but sad at the same time! I wanted to go in there and give him a big hug for being such a good boy! Now I'm probably getting way ahead of myself. There may be tears tomorrow night, but tonight he did great!

Monday, August 8, 2011

Fabulous...

So I'm not sure if everyone knows that my hip's been hurting me for a while. It's been about 5 months where I get a "pinching" sharp pain in the front of my groin, and then pain underneath my groin and into by upper hamstring when I bend forward to pick things up. So that means I pretty much have pain all the time whether I'm bending at my waist to pick up Caleb or his toys off the floor. I also have pain when I cross my legs, lift my right leg, sit or stand too long, and with running. Pretty much sucks! It definitely was the hardest part of turning 30 because I feel like I'm falling apart!

However, it's not excruciating, and I've just been trying to avoid the things that hurt it. However :o) I should be able to run, and I haven't been able to workout like I want to because I don't want to be in pain. It's very frustrating!

Well I had an MRI done, where they also injected dye into my hip joint, and the results confirmed what I've been speculating for the past few months...I have a tear in my hip labrum :o( Basically a tear in my cartilage. And it most likely needs to be repaired :o(

Luckily I work for a great orthopaedic group! Unluckily, my injury is in too private of an area, and there's no way I'm letting my bosses do my surgery! However my MD knows a great hip scope guru, and is going to email him to see if he can get me an appointment to discuss surgery details, and to make sure it's what I need to do.

The major bummer is crutches for up to 6 weeks, which also means a leave of absence from work! Oh goodness! I'll keep everyone posted!

A funny side note: At church on Sunday, the service was about the power of prayer. The pastor stressed that you should pray about whatever is bothering you no matter how great and or small! As I sat there listening, my hip was really hurting me because I got the injection on Friday, and I realized that I haven't ever prayed for my hip! Every night I say prayers with Caleb, and combine my prayers and his prayers. We pray for everyone in our family and friends who need extra prayers. For myself I pray for strength, patience, and guidance to be a good mom and wife. I never think about my hip, even though it sometimes hurts just with walking! I just thought it was funny that even though I've been having this annoying pain for 5 months, at the end of the day, it seems so trivial compared to what else we pray for!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Date Night

Erik and I went out, just the two of us, last Saturday! Neither one of us could remember the last time we did that! My Dad came over to watch Caleb and we went downtown for a night out! We had dinner at Catch 35. It was really good! It was funny because when they seated us, we looked at each, and we said, "So what do we talk about?"

We're so used to only seeing each other about 3 hours a day, and talking in between taking care of Caleb, the dogs, and our every day activities! Erik's first response was, "It's kind of nice to just sit here and be quiet." Then we found plenty to talk about!!

After dinner I got my birthday present! We went to see Beauty & The Beast, the musical! It was SO good! All day Erik told me he was excited to go see it. I asked, "Really, or are you just saying that?" He said, "No, you know I like going to those things! As long as it's not some ballet that I have to interpret!" Haha!

The show was awesome! The set and the way they used the stage was really entertaining! The singing and all of the choreography was really good! And what did we do during intermission? Looked at pictures of Caleb on my phone!

Sunday morning, Erik was getting breakfast ready before church. He put on the Beauty & the Beast DVD for Caleb and said, "This is what Mommy and Daddy went to go see last night." SO CUTE!